No passport, no pants, no problem!

Hello again! This week, with gracious permission from some of my lovely suitors I'll be sharing a bit of what travel with me is like. I've noticed already, some providers already adamantly against most things I enjoy when doing extended client dates so as a disclaimer..these are just my takes and what I am into. This is not an entry to "get chosen/picked" or to sway anyone up or down on the ways you can enjoy traveling with a companion. I'm only ever speaking for myself or what I've seen & done personally.

Welcome to the glorious dead of winter, the current temperature in Atlanta is colder than some parts of Poland but the sun is delightfully shining. Most people here are naturally dreaming of the tropics & warmer temperatures. This seems like a good time to conjure imagery of that warmth and wearing less..a lot less.

As you've read from my other posts, I have been to some warmer places & more tropical so that's what is recently on my mind though I do love a nice fireplace and hot tub rendezvous & winter sports with the apres ski as our prize. I do a lot of traveling & have for many years recreationally or for work in this industry both touring & as a more private & personally selected companion.

Something that I have noticed in more recent years is that many people who aren't required to travel for business do not have a passport or theirs is expired. This is actually more common and normal than I think some people know. It isn't the cost, it's often the paperwork and "not having a reason". Not all who wander are inspired to do so internationally. I got my passport nearly a decade ago because I discovered low cost/affordable travel abroad. Finding a flight to Europe for around $200 was too thrilling & I was compelled after missing out on some girl's trips and invites to meet up with friends outside of my United States bubble.

Being passport ready in the 200teens was considered a status symbol and a flex amongst sex workers (as anything somewhat different or upper class was & is). Being well traveled, cultured and affluent for real or for show was all the rage. Being able to join someone for business or pleasure anywhere & the jet set beauties marketing this knew it was a way to elevate themselves from the masses. I enjoyed using mine to escape my small town & take work breaks, but the perk of being internationally available was never lost on me.

I will say, traveling anywhere with an escort in tow is still not extremely common as a request. In fact, with rising costs of anything related to travel it is less common than it was a decade ago. However, it is something that has it's pros and cons & something most clients are at least curious about. It seems upper eschelon, but with someone who suits you and has the same pages marked as you it can be anything you make it to be.

For me, I've got a handful of adventurous pleasure seekers. Some with passports, some without. Some who want to experience an elevated lifestyle and some who are more practical. Four gentlemen and one lady to be exact. Different walks of life, different interest, different daily lifestyles. All very fun but highly vetted first.

I've had more visitors outside of these that do their big one, that bucket list trip, the VIP yacht with several ladies including myself to celebrate retirement from a wildly successful career. More often, the overnight or two day staycation with me because they always wanted to meet me & knew a few hours wouldn't be satisfactory. Cruises, helicopter rides, Paris, Manhattan shopping, casinos, a motel in the desert, an RV near the place they have to be for work and isolated for months on end. I won't say that I'll go anywhere and do anything, but I am close haha!

Having my own passport, I have found that it is easier for me to come to those who can't for many reasons come to the US and that is very fair, especially now. I also found that international travel, dollar for dollar is more affordable than most US places & general cost of living, home rentals etc. are more value than what I've experienced even in the exotic places the US has on offer. That said, there are many beautiful places and landscapes and views that are not to be missed here (alone or with companionship). Depending on how long the flight is & what your interests are, you can experience plenty without need for extra paperwork on any level financially that suits you.

My recent trip to Puerto Rico even for the New Year's Eve experience was not outside of a normal budget for a few days (with most of the cost going toward my fee) but included having our own car to travel around in, spacious condos off resort & me as his private chef plus our nights out. I know talking $$ is taboo, but the reality is that you must find the companion you trust, is within your budget, who travels and enjoys what you do in order to have a good experience.

I do not offer trips together or overnights as first encounters anymore. I did that in my 20s and we were on both sides disappointed. After a couple of meetings this way, I knew that no amount of money could replace the trust and communication required that some people are not comfortable with. I didn't know how to communicate my own needs, I wasn't a mind reader either & my clients didn't have the chance to get to know me well enough to speak up about what they wanted from the experience they'd planned for us.

I have clients I've known for more than 10 years and new ones that I adore that I know for sure I can't travel or spend significant time with. We enjoy each other thoroughly, but the way we eat, sleep & enjoy private time apart, we already know it would be a spicy disaster anywhere out side of our norm. As a client (I've hired providers myself so I do have some experience but not as much in longer dates), it is important to know what your companion is willing and not willing to do lodging, traveling & routine wise well ahead of something longer than dinner.

This is our job of course, larger paydays are very appealing for many workers and that is both acceptable and normal as a business owner. Many clients have said longer dates were sometimes abruptly cut short with excuses to go attend to personal matters or their attention wasn't in the date, sometimes even an emergency came about. While this is always possible, it doesn't seem like a super likely scenario for either party (not exactly an outright lie, but a convenience that may make the other party feel let down or leery if there's no chance to make up any of the lost time or clear and 8 communication). I personally, do give partial refunds or immediately try to reschedule some or all of our plans if something dire does occur (aka being nearly stranded at sea during bad weather and covid outbreaks or riots in Paris beyond our control which have happened before our very eyes).

Most of my clients are understanding, compassionate and flexible. I adore this, but I don't take advantage of their good nature and most do not attempt to take advantage of mine. There is a system of trust and understanding that I think all working relationships must have, especially for plans that could require more financial or time efforts. Compatibility and communication are so crucial but so incredibly worth it in the grand scheme of things!

If you enjoy these types of posts and would like more insights, advice and breakdowns to plan your own endeavors, do let me know as I've had all types of arrangements massive or ordinary.

With love,

Xoxo

Your redhead gfe in Atlanta & far beyond 💘