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There’s something quietly electric about a date over dinner. It’s not just about whether you’ll like each other. It’s about discovery of another person, of yourself, of how two separate worlds might begin to overlap. There's a good reason that the escort world hypes this experience but for some clients, it can come off as a way of stalling when you are wanting to rush right to the alone time. Sometimes delayed gratification & slowing down for the tease is excruciating but can

Welcome back to the madness that is my behind the scenes series! If you follow my socials, you probably saw the preview commercial for what DreamHaus was. If you missed it, here's a general recap. DreamHaus is a series of pop up events in a dedicated venue space that features artists with their interactive art installations. It is a ticketed event day where anyone with their own equipment can shoot the installations, the official models, bring their own models, pose for the p

Welcome back, lovers! February is the month of love so I thought I would begin a little spotlight series and expand on that through the year. If you've known me at all, you know I love match making & sharing the stage with others when I can. *Write ups are with permission only. I'll try not to gush, but I am thrilled to talk about all things Ellis!  I came across her online presence a few years ago and I was immediately like, yes. Just yes. What stood out to me first beyond t

Hello again! This week, with gracious permission from some of my lovely suitors I'll be sharing a bit of what travel with me is like. I've noticed already, some providers already adamantly against most things I enjoy when doing extended client dates so as a disclaimer..these are just my takes and what I am into. This is not an entry to "get chosen/picked" or to sway anyone up or down on the ways you can enjoy traveling with a companion. I'm only ever speaking for myself or wh

Welcome back, friends! This week, I'm settling into my Santa Clara abode & getting familiar with the neighborhood here. Luckily, a special someone flew in to greet me! Per his wise & curious interest, he requested the foodies package on my site. This package is one of my favorites, for those who are new to expanding their palate or others who flavor chase worldwide. After a lot of hard choices & many links to menus shared, we finally agreed on Wild Rose Eatery in Santa Clara.

As requested, this is the first of many from my self shooting adventures. If you've known me awhile, you've probably noticed that I favor the tripod shots over mirror selfies. I've been self shooting sets of photos for about 8 years now and practice as often as I can. Selfies are great & much easier to get, but I enjoy a challenge. Thank you, sincerely, to those who've financially supported me in this over the years. Countless tripods, shutter buttons, lighting setups and the

As requested, here is a recap of my experience while filming for Friends & Lovers now available to watch on LifeTime in a two part movie as part of their Love of A Lifetime series. Let me just say that first off, I'm really proud of how hard I worked in the film industry in August 2025 in particular. During the filming of Friends and Lovers, I was also working almost daily on Sweet Magnolias season 5 at the same time. I regrettably couldn't pull off working on Just Picture It

If you are new to my blogs, welcome in! If you've read previous ones, welcome back. *If domination, massage and strip tease fantasties are not for you, this is your disclaimer to click away quickly! Some of you have been probably keeping up with my expansion saga since the summer perhaps? Both my California condo and suburbs studio projects have been a slow chip & chisel for a good while now. Some of you noticed my team up with the infamous Mistress Cocky Kitty all the way ba

It's December! It ' s the last month of the year, but a perfect time to announce what I've had going on behind the scenes (and I don't mean just in film). Boys, do I have a plot twist to close the year out right! I've been sort of quiet online lately but it's a good thing. I've been quite the busy little bee! After 2 years & a lot of trips back and forth out to the West Coast, my loving California boyfriends & girlfriends have decided we should make things a little more offic

An example of my capsule wardrobe for a weekend away with a favorite client Disclaimer since I know I'll be seeing "Not liking *insert whatever current thing I like & feel passionately about doesn't make you edgy or cool!" And huge defending of material items and justification of over consuming in a capitalism hellscape posts, you're right and I am sorry in advance. Not everyone makes a living by having to see the latest fashion trends, follow where the items end up, critique

A lot of people are beginning to noice that my account on X is suspended (possibly permanently). It was my second account there & I made it in 2012. It wasn't a huge following since I tailor & curate the experience I enjoy there by mainly sifting through new followers & blocking any that don't align with me. The block list I curated will be most missed. While I do have several other accounts there, I'm not currently able to change the username to anything new on them. I suppo

For my most recent magazine publication, this one was extremely wholesome. Naturally, I can't show much and had to remove or scramble some details though the article was a couple of pages long originally. I thought it was a touching tribute to the life & home I've built since moving to Atlanta in 2020. I know a lot of you like getting to know me through these little details. Some insights you may already know from my posts on socials about my home life, garden & interests, bu

Thank you so very much to those who've sent gifts & patiently waited for my try ons. I've been so busy but my reward on my down time is finally tearing into and getting to wear all of these gorgeous things! So here goes.. These shoes were very high on my most wanted list & I love them! They are a smidge big so I will probably not wear them with such slippery stockings outside. Very much in love with the height (shorter than my normal but more comfortable and very elegant) the

What's new for November? Let's dive in! With the recent government shutdown affecting travel, I'm happy to say that I get to spend most of my time in Atlanta this month. I really appreciate those of you who've been so patient & stepped up to visit me here or plan for later dates. Some of you have also been very generous with my fund raising efforts & sending gifts to lift my spirits even higher! That said, I'm still planning to visit Austin, Texas, San Francisco & Asheville a

In case you missed my posts in the past, these are the links and articles to read more from me over at Hustler Magazine. I have been featured with them 4 times so far & have no plans of stopping anytime soon! It's pretty spicy at times! I've come to really enjoy doing interviews for them and working with Missy Martinez when I get the opportunity. I already have big plans for my next photoshoot with Taryn Carter to use the images for Hustler and other publications that are loo

(I typed this up in June & finally have photos for it) As many know, I'm very vocal about my health journey. I've podcasted it, I've...

It's fall & for me that means more tv & books in my down time. I rarely watch films or series, but October-December I like to cozy up and let my mind wander.  This time of year was when I decided to revisit some of my favorite David Lynch films, not long before his passing, oddly enough. A little while later, a fellow sex work cinephile (@lilbirdliv on X) was doing a write up on the passing of Lynch and his ties to sex workers. I'd recently made reference to him in a tweet fr

We have all seen then many peddlers of advice and mentorship over the years when it comes to this industry. Almost weekly, there is discourse about how tos and courses being sold mainly by companions. When it comes to coaching, self help and how to be your best (as a client or provider), there's a sea of online information. Not all of it is accurate or helpful, some of it even screams scam! In the wonderful world of the web, social media & the rise of sinfluencers turned gett

This game may be familiar to you. Rate my plate! In the wonderful world of entertainment, food is a central focus point for most of us. Getting the lunch call always means it's break time! Often after many hours of repeated motion, sometimes after being in extreme heat, cold or rain. The food isn't really the selling point, the chance to relax is. However, we all tend to remark on it and we remember the good, bad and just downright ugly. This is always the topic of conversati

From my latest shoot with Bonjour Boudoir October 1st 2025 As you've seen, I recently completed my latest photoshoot. Someone wanted to...